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Maureen's Marine
Maureen Valenzi posts daily blogs on her personal perspectives of life - and about her United States Marine, LCPL Ian M. Valenzi, currently serving at Camp Leatherneck, Afghanistan
Maureen's Marine
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Monday, May 21, 2012
Marine Stone my one-star flag
keeps me company
when I sit on the
porch -
and sometimes I find
myself just staring
at it
always a reminder that
I have a Marine at war
and oh so far away
I found a Marine stone
for my garden . . .
another tribute to my
warrior as Memorial Day
approaches
and a way for me to feel
that Ian is still just
maybe - sorta
close to home Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 11:48 AM 0 comments Links to this post
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Sunday, May 20, 2012
Peace
the mark of a successful man
is one who can spend
an entire day
on the river bank
and not feel
guilty about
it
~anonymous Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 1:14 PM 0 comments Links to this post Advice my wake up call today -
is the realization that
I am not managing my stress
well at the moment
in all sincerity, I believed
today was Monday
I began my Monday routines
I began my Monday laundry
I sent emails as though I had
completely missed Sunday
today - a promise and a prayer
that I settle myself down
breathe -
believe that all will be well
and follow my own advice
stop and smell the flowers Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 8:44 AM 0 comments Links to this post Pansies reporting for duty, sir!
Ian . . .look at my
garden today!
made sure the delicate
flowers get only morning
sun
carefully selected my
garden imps
and placed the pathway
lighting just where you
suggested
a moment of respite
(I hope) for you
from the sun, sand
and severe wind storms
of Afghanistan
today - for me...
stop and smell the pansies Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 8:03 AM 0 comments Links to this post Military Blog Award Here's my "badge" for
being a finalist on
the Military Blogging site
have met lots of military
parents - and so my blog
has served as a networking
tool and a source of therapy
for me
thanks to everyone who takes
the time to read my musings
~maureen valenzi Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 7:38 AM 0 comments Links to this post
Saturday, May 19, 2012
Springtime in Sewickley Spring evenings are
savory
my porch entices me
to stop -
and read
or just listen
to the birds
everyone's grass
is lush this time
of year
flower petals are bursting-
the trees proudly show off
their leaves
our little Victorian
town is
simple and sweet
and sits on the
Mighty Ohio River
the water is
only a block from home
and where Ian learned
to fish
Sewickley invites read:
"come have a porch night"
which translates to...
let's relax together
as the sun sets
adult beverage in hand
stimulating conversation included Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 5:58 PM 1 comments Links to this post
Wednesday, May 16, 2012
The Motto all by my lonesome
I trimmed the pines
today
Ian showed me how to
shape them just so
what he forgot to tell
me was . . .
one is left with quite
the mess to clean afterward!
took me just as long to
sweep away the shavings
as it did to re-shape
the trees
patience and
pride and
plenty of water
Ian's mantra when
he worked outdoors
he epitomizes that
motto to this very day Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 8:03 PM 0 comments Links to this post
Tuesday, May 15, 2012
Gramps today is Gramps'
88th birthday !
we are having lunch
together...and then
he will visit Grammy
she has no idea it
is a special day...
Grammy does not even
realize it is the
beautiful month of May
she is lost in her
long-ago thoughts
mostly, Grammy thinks
she is back in nursing
school - and that a
"mother" runs the home
where she lives
she has a far-away look
in her blue eyes . . .
but she seems happy, content
and full of stories to share
none of them are true or
accurate - but any and
every audience listens patiently
gauze shrouds her
memory -
every once in a while
I see a glimmer of her
that rises like a Phoenix
then evaporates as quickly
as it pushed through
the fog
Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 8:55 AM 0 comments Links to this post
Monday, May 14, 2012
Blessings
a quiet Monday, Ian
dad is at a church meeting
(*they can be so tiresome
and yet...he is loyal and
without complaint)
tomorrow promises to be
a beautiful day
no humidity
no rain
nothing but sunshine
so
I will toil away
in the garden you
encouraged me to grow
I will say private
prayers as I pull
weeds on hands and knees
I will be thankful
my boys are
whole
contributing to society
and
working from dusk till dawn
to own and acknowledge
that they are now adults
in this wonderful world
they are my son's'hines
and the blessings overwhelm Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 7:46 PM 0 comments Links to this post Variety surprises me how
one day in Spring
can bring such lovely
fresh air, a glistening
sun and a whisper of a breeze
and the next...
a grey sky - with no
glimpse of the sun at all
sopping wet earth
beneath my feet
Ian deals with the blistering
heat day in and day out
week after week
month after month
my mother's heart tells
me he would give just about
anything for a little
change in his weather
forecast
variety -
the new spice in his life
Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 1:05 PM 0 comments Links to this post Toby Keith
Toby Keith
performing
for the Marines
at Camp Leatherneck
April, 2012 Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 12:06 PM 0 comments Links to this post Thank You S'more !
A GRAND
package
from home
full of marshmallows
and graham crackers...
and Hershey's chocolate
for home-made S'mores!
Lots of happy Marines
at the 1st MLG-FWD ! Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 12:04 PM 0 comments Links to this post Soap and Water 1st MLG-FWD shower
and laundry area
the toiletry supplies are
shared - from all the boxes
sent to the Marines
from home
photo taken in
May, 2012
Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 11:56 AM 0 comments Links to this post Peonies I celebrated the blossoms
on my peony bush yesterday!
Ian was always my gardening
cheerleader...and right on cue
a mother's day peony drooped
its heavey head in full beauty!
it was gift enough from my
Marine who is so far away
but -
early this morning
a short email from
Ian - full of regret
that he could not
get to the ONE and
only phone on
Camp Leatherneck
to call me on
Mother's Day
he felt so badly about it
he was frustrated about it
he could not control it
and so now . . .
perhaps it is clearer
why my position about
a holiday that causes
pressure
angst and sometimes
even pain
is not my favorite
day of the year
lest I forget it is
also a day of great
joy for so many
not sure it is
worth the hype
my Marine did not
need any added
pressure or worries
because the calendar
told us yesterday's
Sunday was Mother's Day
Ian has shared his gift of
gardening with me -
that trumps an obligatory
phone call any day of the year Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 8:33 AM 0 comments Links to this post
Sunday, May 13, 2012
Mother's Day The heart-wrenching grief for
mothers during the Civil War
was
the loss of their sons
and so, the original beginning
and meaning of the day
was established to find common ground for the
women whose sons died while
fighting for both the North
and the South
but now
Mother's Day is clearly
almost completely commercialized
the holiday has morphed into an opportunity
for big business to prey upon the
"guilt complex" or gratitude from children
that traditionally can only be expressed
with showering of gifts
I am truly glad for people who find
Mother's Day a wonderful opportunity
to gather with family - share a meal -
go to a ball game - or just enjoy a cup
of tea together
I still struggle with the entire notion
of a special day just for Mothers
and certainly being the center of attention
for an entire day is not something I look
forward to
my own mother has no idea we are in the
glorious Spring season - she believes the
month is October and Autumn is about to begin
maybe it is good she does not know today is
Mother's Day . . . we can have that cup of tea,
watch the birds - or smell freshly cut grass
just about any day we choose Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 8:26 AM 0 comments Links to this post
Saturday, May 12, 2012
Onward A Marine - gives the
ok for Afghan
citizens to
pass by after an
inspection for
IED's - and other
contraband
photo taken
May, 2012 Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 3:31 PM 0 comments Links to this post Lending a Hand A Marine -
sits on a patrol base
in Helmand Province,
Afghanistan . . .
the children have come
to love the United States
Marines -
because they give them treats
Ian tells me he stuffs his empty
pockets with gum, tic-tacs and
life savers for the children Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 3:23 PM 0 comments Links to this post Dawn's Early Light A lone United States Marine
greets the dawn
in Helmand Province,
Afghanistan
he is 'on watch'
photo taken May 2, 2012 Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 3:18 PM 0 comments Links to this post The Good Earth Ian is missing a
gorgeous Spring
in Southwestern
Pennsylvania
his work keeps him
occupied 24/7
his jobs keep changing
and Ian makes personal adjustments
the way you and I stroll
through our daily routines
Ian loves the outdoors --
good thing, I suppose
but the desert is new
territory - even for my
nature-lover
so I post refreshing posies
to remind him there still
is softness in the world
there still are aromas that
will always remind him of home
and that as Spring renews and
refreshes the good earth
there will always be a place
for him in the world Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 3:03 PM 0 comments Links to this post
Friday, May 11, 2012
Mother Nature the coolness of morning
gives me opportunity to wish
I could blow a puff
of its refreshment to Ian
already temperatures in
the Helmand Desert are
soaring over 100 degrees
before the sun hits its peak
Ian loves the sun - basks in
its ferocious presence
and I know he will never
complain about the heat
but there is no denying the
fact the Marines are not only
exposed to the sun's constant
and unrelenting sizzle -
they strap 50 pounds of
equipment to their backs
each and every day
as they embark on their
missions
and not once - not even
a hint of complaint has
Ian uttered about the heat
so today, as I trim my
red Chinese Maple tree and
the breeze blows through my hair
I will secretly ask Mother Nature
to take her sweet breath of fresh
air to my Marine
in Afghanistan -
even if only for a moment's respite
from the blazing heat
a gift from his mother -
who believes in the enchantment
of Mother Nature
Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 9:20 AM 0 comments Links to this post
Thursday, May 10, 2012
Milblogging Nomination to all my faithful blog
readers . . .
Maureen's Marine
has been nominated as
"Best Military Parent Blog"
again this year.
I am very flattered, humbled
and was taken by complete surprise
the milblogging.com site has
over 2500 blogs and over 3700
readers/users
Maureen's Marine is in the top
five finalists thanks to all of
you who read it
such an honor -
I search for grace and the
right words to simply say
thank you
(voting is closed - and winners
are announced at a national convention
this weekend in Virginia) Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 12:28 PM 1 comments Links to this post Impact I seem to have adopted
new rituals since Ian
left for Afghanistan
of course I check daily
for emails -
and when I receive one from my Marine
I hard copy it and paste
it into a hardcover scrapbook
I read an on-line Marine magazine
called THE CONVOY --
every article and message in The Convoy
is positive, encouraging and full of
current photographs
shopping, packing and mailing
goodie boxes is still therapeutic -
Ian never tires of tangible
love from home
quiet moments always bring my
thoughts to Ian and his missions
although I sometimes feel that he
keeps me in the dark about particulars
I know just enough for my mother's
heart to ache, worry and hope
The United States Marines has managed
to capture
our entire family --
and friends ask about Ian almost daily
he has no idea the impact he has made
on us all --
or the world Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 11:58 AM 1 comments Links to this post Combat Patrol
Tactical vehicles cross
an expanse of desert
this combat patrol supported
counter insurgency operations
in Helmand by providing
235 TONS of equipment
and
5,000 gallons of fuel
photo taken May 6, 2012 Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 11:35 AM 1 comments Links to this post
Wednesday, May 9, 2012
Dandelions I cursed the heaviness
of the dirt in my garden
today
the rains keep coming and
the weeds scoff at my
feeble attempt to outwit
them
but as I was on bended knee
engaged in a tug of war
with a spiny dandy-tiger
it occurred to me that
Ian has no refreshing rain
to cool his sunburned face
and
there is no mud in the desert
of Afghanistan
weeds choke-off from mere
lack of water
a personal tongue-lashing
was in order -
as I shifted my thinking
from complaints of a heavy
spade ladened with mud --
(acknowledged that Ian is in
a real war with no tugging involved) --
a prayer of thanksgiving
for blessed rainwater
seemed so much more appropriate
Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 2:00 PM 1 comments Links to this post
Monday, May 7, 2012
Photo Op I would really love
a current / new
photo of Ian
been so very long
since I have laid
eyes on him
and the photos on the
blog . . .
seem so out-dated...
foreign --
and old
note to self:
when Ian comes home
for R & R . . .
tons
and
tons
of photos
no matter how much
he objects !!
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Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 8:47 PM 2 comments Links to this post High Alert
Marines on patrol
in Helmand Province
insurgent activity has
increased over the past
ten days
photo taken May 4, 2012 Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 2:08 PM 1 comments Links to this post Fog snatches of peace
keep us calm
pieces of history
give us roots
the rains are
life-giving
losing hold of
the reins is devastating
sometimes life just
isn't fair
attending a fare
makes up for it
once upon a time
mother was a miss
and now - all her
world is amiss
her mind becomes prey
for dementia's appetite
we pray the rest of
her days are filled
with tranquility
Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 9:51 AM 0 comments Links to this post
Sunday, May 6, 2012
Breathing I check email
first thing every
day
this morning -
was no different
mostly what comes
in I delete
but the ritual of
sitting down at
the computer
with my morning coffee
is how I jump-start
my day
today my heart raced
on all cylinders -
because there was an
email from Ian
nothing but positive
energy from my Marine -
all good news with
a happy spirit
Mother's Day came
early for me this year
I feel like I can breathe
again Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 9:31 AM 0 comments Links to this post
Friday, May 4, 2012
Blessed Shade
desperately
seeking shade
from the blistering
hot desert sun
Helmand Province,
Afghanistan
Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 1:09 PM 1 comments Links to this post Fraternizing United States Marines
inter-acting with
Afghans - near Camp Leatherneck
Helmand Province, Afghanistan
photo taken May 2, 2012 Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 12:58 PM 0 comments Links to this post Forced Adjustment he must be very
busy
and very far
from communications
and very much entrenched
in a Marine mission
weeks and weeks
have passed since
any word, text or
email from Ian
four months he has
been in Afghanistan
four months I have
been trying to adjust
forever he will be
a changed man Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 8:17 AM 0 comments Links to this post
Thursday, May 3, 2012
Mother winter comes to us
in Spring this year
mother is stuck
in a parallel universe
her dilemma brings both peace
and great angst
she seems completely
whole
but her fractured
being is evident
even to strangers
our job:
is to accept
encourage and
adapt
we must keep her safe
secure - and special
the endeavor takes
its toll
and although the price
feels burdensome and heavy
at the start
we shall continue to
invest
indulge -
and strive to
give her
safety, security
and solace Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 8:11 PM 0 comments Links to this post
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Baby Steps twenty one years ago
I was a young mother
with three very little
boys . . .
story time
and quiet time
and bed time
were predictable
events in our
household
nothing interrupted
routine
and now...
there is no
such
thing!
my youngest musketeer
turned 21 years old
this week
it's a good thing
as Miss Martha says...
only problem is:
I, too...
am 21 years older !
but oh the joy in
knowing . . .
adult children bring
such
satisfaction Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 8:36 PM 0 comments Links to this post
Monday, April 30, 2012
The Snowman I remember long ago
on the snowiest of days
my father built
the best snowmen ever
he fashioned them with
great care
Dad took his time - it was
clear he enjoyed
the task
after careful crafting and
every minute detail fashioned
to his liking -
he stepped back
and basked in his
accomplishment
I am older now
and know that even
crisp winter
skies are home to a
glowing sun
so I clearly see ...
the white snow has melted
right before our very eyes
diminished and dwindled -
and dissolved forever
Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 12:46 PM 0 comments Links to this post
Saturday, April 28, 2012
Once Upon a Time once upon a time
and about 75 pounds ago
this is a photo I found
of Ian . . .
fighting the mansion
fire in Edgeworth
two years ago . . .
this is the kind of
stuff - that makes
Ian's heart beat
he knew a very long
time ago
that the
United States Marines
was his calling
Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 4:43 PM 1 comments Links to this post Bulbs my garden calls to
me
even in the spitting
rain
just had to plant one
more peony
(or two!) . . .
refrained from planting
the begonias
but only because
I couldn't decide
where to plant them!
cheapest therapy
around --
dirt,
a spade -
and flower bulbs
Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 3:48 PM 1 comments Links to this post The Interpreter An Afghan man speaks to a Marine
serving in Helmand Province
(with the help of an interpreter)
The man told the Marines
he was on his way to bury his father
who was killed during an insurgent
suicide bomber attack.
Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 2:07 PM 1 comments Links to this post The Search Outside Camp Leatherneck in
Helmand Province, Afghanistan
Marines stop a motor cyclist
so they can inspect his bags
along with everything he is carrying
they are looking for insurgent
activity - and IED's
photo was taken April 26, 2012 Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 2:02 PM 1 comments Links to this post
Friday, April 27, 2012
The Monologue things are still
very quiet
no word from Afghanistan
no text
no email
no phone call
the mantra
no news is good news
is comforting enough
because it has to be.
I continue to send
Ian motomail
and email and
boxes
it's therapeutic
for me to feel a
connection to him
even though
for now,
there is no dialogue
just a monologue
that I hope Ian hears Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 1:50 PM 0 comments Links to this post
Thursday, April 26, 2012
Nature's Gift again
once more
and as usual -
I spent the morning
hours weeding my garden
time on my hands and
knees is humbling
the quiet of my thoughts
gives me the opportunity
to reflect -
remember and
retreat
I know the bones
of my garden well
every stone and statue
gives me solace
but today was
extra special
while sweeping the
tree droppings from
the dirt . . .
I found
a perfectly formed
beautiful blue robin's egg
nestled between
the pines
so, although I didn't exactly
'stop and smell the roses'
I did take the time to fully
appreciate the wonder of that
bird egg -
and prayed the mother bird
trusts the universe to
treasure her life's work
Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 1:47 PM 0 comments Links to this post
Wednesday, April 25, 2012
Home Away from Home This is Ian's
welcome sign
in Helmand Province
A photo from inside
the Camp Leatherneck
Compound
Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 1:13 PM 0 comments Links to this post
Tuesday, April 24, 2012
The Quiet am back in the
no news-good news mode
been weeks since we
heard from Ian
I'm no better at
this than I was
months ago
maybe that's the
problem...
until I learn to
manage
and trust
and believe
I will have
turmoil
practicing...
not mastered
the worry monster
quite yet
Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 7:10 PM 0 comments Links to this post Vote April 24, 2012
election day
in the Commonwealth
of Pennsylvania
the weather has settled
the sun is shining
the polls are open
this privilege of
casting a vote is
just one of the many
freedoms
the Marines and all our
troops protect
our knee-jerk reaction
should be to run to the
polls --
a tangible thank you
to them all
Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 10:53 AM 0 comments Links to this post Thank You Moment
Football fans -
thanking our troops
before a game at
Lambeau Field in
November
the networks chose to
air a commercial -
in lieu of this patriotic
moment ...
which took all of
ten seconds Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 7:47 AM 0 comments Links to this post
Monday, April 23, 2012
Comfort Food severe weather is
a fascination
I can't seem to resist
the air changes (literally)
when extreme conditions
are predicted
I become fixated on
the sky and in my own
amateur fashion
I try to "read" the clouds
or watch how far the trees
bend in the wind to determine
what might fall from the sky
the process mesmerizes
and is so irresistible that
I find myself standing on
the porch - hoping Mother
Nature will work her magic
before my very eyes
when the birds stop flying
and I can no longer hear
their secret chirping cadence
a change in the weather
is imminent - my purpose
for the day takes an
immediate u-turn . . .
to the kitchen!
a pot of home made
soup - comfort food
to celebrate
an unexpected snowy
day near April's end Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 8:08 AM 0 comments Links to this post
Sunday, April 22, 2012
Hello? my history reveals that
I have never dashed
to answer a telephone
everyone knows:
I don't like to
chat on the telephone
email me if you need
to address just about
anything
(however, Lou's reputation
is even worse!...at least I
return calls!)
point is --
my how things have
changed
when the phone rings
and especially
if we do not recognize
the number
Lou and I make a mad
dash to answer
because --
it could be Ian
it might be Afghanistan
it may be our Marine
mostly
the phone calls are
simply political -
considering it's April
in Pennsylvania
but we just
never know
when it might be
Ian on the other
end of the telephone
hello? Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 2:06 PM 0 comments Links to this post
Saturday, April 21, 2012
Spice of Life the house smells of
cinnamon tonight
it is Ian's favorite
I lit apple-jack
candles and put
pure cinnamon oil
in my light
bulb rings
there is a special
welcome about
the aroma of cinnamon
it does not have
to be
Christmas or
Thanksgiving or
any holiday
it's just
the
smell
of
home Posted by Maureen Valenzi at 8:17 PM 0 comments Links to this post Older Posts Home Subscribe to: Posts (Atom)
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Ian's Address:
(use this address for pkgs.)
LCPL Valenzi, Ian M. 2555
1st MLG FWD ( H & S Co. )
Unit 42170
FPO AP 96427-2170
To send Ian a LETTER:
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and set up an account
(make a note of Ian's address)
email: ianvalenzi@gmail.com
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